Hello Rad and All,
I am looking at attachment styles through the lens of EA. I know that attachment styles stem from our early relationship development and conditioning. In more mainstream psychology this is only looked at through the lens of our caregivers and how this impacts our relationship styles as adults. To me when looking at evolution there can be attachment styles that stem from prior lifetimes as well (why we chose to be born into a certain familial or early upbringing on a soul level) and that would correlate with the relationship types as stated in the Pluto II book.
The relationship attachment styles are anxious, avoidant/dismissive, disorganized(fearful/avoidant), and secure. To me we would see anxious in the codependent (Libra/Cancer square) relationship more prominently. Secure (Taurus/Cancer sextile). Anxious or anxious/dismissive would be more prevalent in Sadomasochism (Pisces/Virgo). Disorganized which is a combination of fearful/avoidant (Scorpio/Cancer trine) and more prevalent in possibly karma mates. I feel like the inconjunct with the 11th/Cancer could be a part of the anxious attachment style possibly as well. Would any of this be accurate?
To me Cancer/Capricorn, Taurus, Libra and Pisces would be included in some way because of essential relationship needs in combination with our early life conditioning. Can someone shed some light on the natural aspects to other signs/houses that would reflect these types of attachment styles and synthesizing this within the EA principles? I am having a hard time discerning this. Thanks for any input on this.
Much Love and Gratitude,
Would any of this be accurate?
God Bless, Rad